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Week 14

Wow, I went a whole week without posting! I was at home visiting for Joanna’s shower and bachelorette party = busybusy! I’ll post about that later…

The Baby:

week14*The baby evens out = arms and legs proportionate to rest of body
*Hands and feet now measure 1/2 inch long
*Actively kicking and punching (I still can’t feel it)
*Covered in fuzzy layer of hair (lanugo)
*Taste buds! Theoretically, the baby can now taste.
*Unique fingerprints
*If I poke my finger into my stomach, the baby may start rooting (a reflex to search for a nipple) — awwww!
*Baby can now squint, frown, grimace, pee and possibly suck their thumb
*Measures 3.5 inches in length, weighs 1.5 ounces
*Size of a lemon!

week 14

The Mom:

week 14 me*Showing: the uterus now extends above the pubic bone, causing most women to start to show around this time
*Constipation. I don’t have it (yet?) but now is the time it can start. The digestive tract slows and the extra iron in my prenatal vitamin also contributes.
*Feeling more hungry? Not yet… some foods still make me nauseous, which I don’t discover until I’m eating it. I can’t seem to make myself eat any more yet, but if I go to my next doctor appt and still haven’t gained any weight (or lost weight like last time), I believe I will cry.
*Symptoms: getting better. No more sore breasts. The fatigue is a lot better, but I still pass out by 10pm (at the latest!). Only slight nausea on occasion.
*Headaches: still getting them, but I’ve figured out what causes them. The weather. I get a headache every time it’s going to rain and it tends to last the whole rainy day. I feel better that at least I know the cause. The weather has been really bad recently, but I have hope that when the rainy season here ends, my headaches will too.

The Dad:

*Lost 22 pounds since “knocking up the wife” — yes, his words. He has started running, lifting weights again and he occasionally walks home from work (3 miles).
*Had his first “field day” at work on Tuesday. He had to go to Des Moines, hike around and sit in a boat for hours collecting water samples. He loved it! Although it poured rain the last 2 hours he was on the boat, brr!

Other news…

We’re working on a baby registry… Rachel is throwing me a shower next month before we move! We’re using a site where you can register from multiple stores.. to help people out who don’t live near a Babies-R-Us or something. So we have things on there from Target, Walmart and Amazon too. You can see it here, but it’s still a work in progress: www​.kaboodle​.com/​e​r​dicky

We finally got the fan in our car fixed (thanks grandpa dickey!) = working air conditioning!! It’s like heaven. And just in time for our 90 degree. THANK GOD.

I found a beautiful wooden high chair at a garage sale in Rockford while I was visiting.. just happened to drive by! I hate those huge plastic ones that most stores sell. This one is 4 years old from The Children’s Place. Got it for $20 (they sell in stores for $100 or more)! Love the carved back – looks like a heart.

highchair

Btw, here is the bassinet my mom bought for us… filled with some of my stuffed animals and baby stuff :) It’s light blue, but we’ll add some pink if it’s a girl. (We find out in ONE MONTH!)

bassinet

Sniper shatters lives, and our sensibilities

The Record (Bergen County, NJ) October 12, 2002 | JERRY SCHWARTZ, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS 00 – 00-0000 Sniper shatters lives, and our sensibilities By JERRY SCHWARTZ, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS Date: 10-12-2002, Saturday Section: NEWS Edtion: All Editions.=.Late Edition. Early Edition There was nothing powerful about the sound. It was, an assistant store manager said, something like a light bulb popping. And there was nothing cataclysmic about the damage — just a small hole in the display window, about the size of a marble.

It was 5:20 p.m. on Wednesday, Oct. 2, and an epic nightmare was beginning.

But no one knew it — no one, that is, except the person who fired the rifle into a busy Michaels crafts store at the Northgate Plaza shopping center in Aspen Hill, Md.

No one was injured or killed by the single rifle blast. But then the sniper’s aim turned deadly.

The killings begin It is 6:04 p.m., 44 minutes after the shot pierced the store window. James D. Martin is in the parking lot of the Shoppers Food Warehouse in Wheaton, a mile away from Michaels.

Martin, a 55-year-old program analyst for a federal department, has been shopping. But not for himself — he is buying things for the pupils at Shepherd Elementary School in Washington. People in his department at the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration’s Office of Marine and Aviation Operations serve as mentors there, and Martin is devoted.

The lot is full — cars are waiting in line for spaces — but the report of the gun resounds over the sounds of idling engines. Across the street, officers at a district police station jump to their feet and out to the street, looking for the source.

But some shoppers are unaware. One walks by, assuming the figure on the ground is merely a motorist working under his car. When the officers find him, they perform CPR, but to no avail. Martin — Civil War buff, ardent volunteer, father of an 11-year-old son — is dead.

This alone is a peculiar thing for this community. Montgomery County is not to be confused with the neighboring District of Columbia. It is Maryland’s most affluent; “violent crime is not regarded as a serious problem,” says the county Web site.

One hour, three dead At 7:41 a.m. Thursday, the sky is a brilliant blue. James L. “Sonny” Buchanan cuts the grass at the Fitzgerald Auto Mall on Rockville Pike in the county’s White Flint area.

Buchanan is a 39-year-old poet, a self-employed landscaper who likes to teach children about plants.

He has moved to Virginia and a Christmas tree farm he owns with his father, but he still comes back to Maryland and mows the grass for the dealership, as he has for 10 years. web site fitzgerald auto mall

There’s a loud sound — like a huge object hitting the ground, thinks body shop manager Gary Huss. Outside, Buchanan stumbles 200 feet into the lot and collapses, face forward.

A hundred dealership employees surround the bleeding man. They, too, react to murder with disbelief — surely, the lawnmower exploded. When the ambulance arrives about 10 minutes later, emergency workers find the hole in his chest left by the bullet.

Thirty-one minutes later, 54-year-old Prem Kumar Walekar fills the tank of his cab at the Mobil station on Aspen Hill Road in Rockville.

He immigrated 30 years ago, and worked hard all his life to raise his two children, now in their 20s, to help his family back in India and to bring his siblings to the United States.

He does not usually take to the road this early, but the day is beautiful, and he wants to finish early and enjoy the sunshine.

Police Cpl. Paul Kukucka is nearby, driving to the funeral of a fellow officer who died of a heart attack, when a woman runs toward him, her arms waving.

This man has just been shot! He’s bleeding!” she shouts.

Kukucka runs to the pumps and finds Walekar, blood flowing from his chest, dying.

A little more than a mile away, in front of a post office in Silver Spring, a Salvadoran immigrant sits on a metal bench and reads. Sarah Ramos was a law student in her native country; now she is a 34-year– old housecleaner, waiting for her ride to work.

The shot, like all the others, comes from nowhere. It passes through her head and into the Crisp & Juicy carryout restaurant behind her.

She was sitting on the bench, just sitting there,” says a witness, Dolores Wallgren.

It is 8:37 a.m., and three people have died in the past 56 minutes.

Middle of a massacre With horrible and abrupt clarity, the police realize they are in the middle of a massacre.

Police officials meet at the Mobil station to plot their next move. They would send every officer available to patrol the area, ordering them to wear their bulletproof vests. Park police, state police, police from surrounding areas all are drawn into the maelstrom.

There is one clue: According to a witness to the Ramos shooting, two men in a white “box truck” with black lettering sped away from the scene. All across the area, police stop and search white delivery vans.

But they cannot protect Lori Ann Lewis-Rivera, 25-year-old mother of a preschooler. She pulls her burgundy minivan up to a Kensington Shell station’s coin-operated vacuum, removes her daughter’s car seat, and begins to clean her car.

At 9:58 a.m., a single bullet strikes her, knocking her to the ground.

Mechanic John Mistry is working nearby under the hood of a car when he hears the loud “crack.” An electrical short, he figures. But when he looks up, the lights are still on.

Mistry and fellow mechanic Jimmy Ajca run out of the garage to find Lewis-Rivera under her van door, blood trickling from her mouth.

Small bubbles dribble from her lips as she struggles for breath.

Nor can police protect Pascal Charlot. The 72-year-old handyman is gunned down while standing on Kalmia Road and Georgia Avenue in Washington, half a block from the border with Montgomery County.

It is 9:15 p.m. In a little more than 27 blood-soaked hours, six people have been killed — each apparently with a single, .223-caliber bullet fired at long range, each for no apparent reason.

Stop this madness’ On Friday, Montgomery County Police Chief Charles Moose appeals for an end to the murders. “We implore him to surrender, stop this madness, ” he pleads.

But the shootings do not stop. Instead, they spread to other places.

At 2:30 p.m. Friday, a 43-year-old woman from Spotsylvania, Va., the mother of two young sons, is parked in front of the Michaels craft store in Fredericksburg, 50 miles south of Washington. She has made her purchases, and is loading her champagne-colored Toyota minivan. website fitzgerald auto mall

The bullet hits her in the lower right side of her back, exits under her left breast and is embedded in the rear of the minivan. Miraculously, her vital organs are spared.

She’s very lucky,” says Spotsylvania County sheriff’s Major Howard Smith.

She is the first to survive this rampage. Police will not give her name; there are fears that her safety is still in jeopardy.

On Monday, a 13-year-old student at Benjamin Tasker Elementary School in Bowie, Md., changes his daily routine, and almost pays for it with his life.

Normally, he attends a prayer service before taking the bus to school. But on this day, he skips the service, and his aunt drives him to school. As he walks to the front door, he crumples to the ground, shot once in the chest.

His aunt is a nurse. She scoops him up and drives him to the hospital. He survives.

And this time, the gunman leaves a message. A police search of a wooded area 150 yards from the school turns up a .223-caliber shell casing and a tarot card — the Death card.

On it, someone had written this:

Dear policeman, I am God.” People are unnerved by a villain who seems to be everywhere, all powerful, and invisible. Some keep their children out of school. Soccer and baseball leagues cancel their games, and outdoor recesses are put on hold.

Adults find themselves looking over their shoulders as they scurry about, nervously doing chores that once entailed no risk.

You think you’re safe, but you’re only as safe as your next step, ” says Sharon Healy, whose son Brandon attends school at Tasker.

On Wednesday, Dean Harold Meyers stops at the Battlefield Sunoco station, seven miles south of Manassas, Va. He is 53, a project manager and design engineer from Gaithersburg, Md., who has worked for the same engineering firm for 20 years.

He finishes filling the tank. He prepares to return to his black Mazda. There is a shot. It is 8:15 p.m., and the body of Dean Meyers lies crumpled on the station’s concrete floor.

And then, a little more than 37 hours later, another death: a father of six, Kenneth H. Bridges, gunned down at yet another Virginia gas station. A witness across the street from the Exxon station on Route 1 in Fredericksburg says he heard a single shot, saw a white van nearby.

It all fits the pattern. But for now, authorities say, they cannot be certain this was the latest victim of a self-elected God.

JERRY SCHWARTZ, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS


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