He did awesome. When it was bedtime, he just fell right asleep in his car seat! He only started crying once because he was hungry. Yea, I was nervous. I haven't really practiced it either--I mean, getting him ready to nurse while keeping everything covered up. When I nurse him at home, I don't try to hide anything, lol. AND sitting on the other side of the booth were 2 of my guy friends... one of the things I mentioned in my last post that made me uncomfortable! This was like the ultimate test!
I picked up Ryan and I said to my friends, "You guys are cool if I feed him right now, right?" It was hilarious--the 2 guys right across from me both looked straight down at their plate of food and said "oh yea, of course, uh huh, go ahead." They didn't mean to, but it was totally obvious, haha. I used Ryan's blanket over my shoulder just to get him latched and then I kind of let it fall down. I think one of the guy's stared at his plate almost the whole time, but the other guy talked to me and looked me in the face. I think he forgot what I was doing!
And they all said they'd punch anyone who might say something rude to me about it
And that was it - my first REAL experience in public and in front of male friends. I rock!
Ok, NIP #2. Besides nursing in front of guys, I also mentioned in my last post that it was weird to nurse in front of family. Welllll.... I just wanted to knock this dead all in one weekend apparently. We were at my in-laws on Sunday afternoon and Ryan got hungry. I didn't want to sit alone in the other room especially because there really wasn't anywhere private unless I went all the way upstairs.
At first it was really awkward because they handed Ryan over to me because he was hungry, so everyone's eyes were on us (or at least I thought so!) I sat back down on the couch, waited for everyone to continue doing their thing, and nursed him. I used the blanket again like at the restaurant and everything was fine. No one said a word or really seemed to notice. Two hours later, I did it again.
Talent in kitchen turns into growing food business
The Buffalo News (Buffalo, NY) February 5, 2012 | Stephen T. Watson As a teenager, Nadja Piatka was working at the diner her parents owned in Toronto when she noticed how popular her mother's pierogi were with their customers.
Piatka thought her family should focus on making pierogi, but her mother stuck with the restaurant.
"That was my first kind of experience going, gee, if you have a product that's unique and delicious and good value, people are going to buy it," she said.
Several decades later, Piatka is following her own advice. Her Nadja Foods makes low-fat, low-calorie snacks sold through restaurant and supermarket chains across North America.
Before finding success with Nadja Foods, Piatka endured the breakup of her first marriage, leaving her a single mother struggling to find work while dodging debt collectors.
The Canadian native now runs her company from Buffalo, where she moved for love, and she has a network of companies that bake, package and ship her food for her.
Today, Nadja Foods is expanding into gluten-free products and moving into new marketplaces. And the onetime teacher comes up with the recipes, develops new business and makes sure everything is done to her standards.
"I think everybody has layers and layers of talents. Sometimes we don't reach for them, or look for them. I think adversity makes us do that," said Piatka, in a recent interview in her Elmwood Village home, where "Mac," a black rescue cat named after her gluten-free macaroons, was underfoot. here low calorie snacks
Piatka left the classroom years ago to be a stay-at-home mother to her two children.
They were living in Edmonton when her dentist husband left her for another woman.
Piatka had trouble finding another teaching job, and she tried to ignore creditors who came to her house.
After she and her daughter were forced to hide under the kitchen table one afternoon, until the knocking at the door ceased, she realized something had to change.
She sent out 30 resumes but got only one interview, and she cried in that meeting. "That's when I thought, what can I do? What do I do?" she said.
Piatka liked cooking, and she had enjoyed working at her parents' restaurant, which was named Nadja's because she was the only one of three daughters who willingly worked there.
She began baking muffins, brownies and other snacks in her kitchen, packing them up and delivering them herself to local coffee shops, taking the name Three Blondes and a Brownie for her small company.
She logged long work shifts of baking and driving, beginning at 4 a.m. She worried that a single mistake with a batch of food, or one problem with her car, could prove catastrophic.
"I realized I was working hard, not smart," Piatka said.
But she didn't have the savings, nor the ability to borrow, to expand by hiring more workers.
So Piatka contracted with bakeries and other companies, a process known as “outsourcing,” which allowed her to begin mass-producing her treats.
Piatka didn’t have business experience, but she had confidence, and her break came when she contacted the regional McDonald’s Canada headquarters in Edmonton, which was expanding its breakfast menu. The company tested Piatka’s low-fat muffins against those of other companies, including Quaker Oats Co., and she won the contract.
“It was right timing, right product, right attitude,” she said.
Restaurants, supermarkets and their customers responded to snacks that taste good but are relatively healthy, such as her 145-calorie brownies sold through Subway.
Those brownies, for example, get moisture and texture, as well as some of their sugar content, from pureed dates and they don’t contain artificial sweeteners.
“I really believe the best food starts in a bowl in someone’s kitchen,” Piatka said.
Now, a lot of people write to her saying they also have a great recipe and they want to know how they can sell it to a food– services conglomerate.
Piatka tells them that when she sold her “fat wise” muffin recipe to Quaker Oats, the company was paying for the value it represented — the volume of sales behind the recipe — and not the list of ingredients.
Her recipes have to be scalable, and the finished products must be able to withstand packaging, shipping, sitting on display at the retail location and making it to the customer’s home — and taste good in the end.
Piatka talks about the “wow” factor for her snacks: “When you bite into something and you go, ‘Oh, wow, this tastes really good.’ That’s it.” Nadja Foods’ products are independently tested for their nutritional value, and the food items must be made to her stringent requirements. website low calorie snacks
One facility wasn’t meeting those standards, Piatka said, and Nadja Foods no longer works with that company.
The snacks — including her 120-calorie Nadja’s Petite Angel Cakes — are produced in Alberta, Canada, and Iowa and warehoused in Pueblo, Colo.
Piatka is based in Buffalo, where she moved after meeting her husband, Douglas Smith, at the Albright-Knox Art Gallery in the late 1990s.
She works out of the office in her home on Lexington Avenue with her daughter, Veronica, the company’s only other full-time employee.
Piatka declined to reveal annual sales figures for the privately held Nadja Foods, which also has brokers in the United States and Canada who work as a commissioned sales force.
She sees the company’s recent push into gluten-free products as a natural extension of the brand’s emphasis on low-calorie, low-fat snacks.
Gluten-free food is growing in popularity among people who have celiac disease — and therefore can’t eat wheat, rye or barley — and those who think it’s healthier to follow this diet.
Nadja Foods traditionally has sold its snacks through large clients such as McDonald’s, Subway, Wegmans and Price Chopper supermarkets.
Now the company is selling its brownies through school districts, including in the Cayman Islands, that want to offer healthier snacks to their students. “My school business has really jumped,” Piatka said.
Looking ahead, Piatka said she wants to form an outsourcing partnership with a local facility.
“I would like to create things in Buffalo, because this is my home,” Piatka said.
She also puts together an annual trip for professional women that is held at a hotel in Quebec and offers bonding and networking opportunities.
And Piatka hired a writer to produce a biography titled, “From Under the Table to the Top of the World: The Incredible Life Story of Nadja Piatka,” which she is self-publishing.
Piatka is in remission from leukemia and talks in the book about how she tried, even in the face of her cancer diagnosis, to focus on things in her life she was thankful for.
She has another message she regularly shares with audiences, one aimed at anyone who finds herself in the same circumstances she faced 20 years ago: “Do something.” “I really want this book to make them realize that you can follow your dreams regardless of how little money you have [or] your situation in life,” she said.
Stephen T. Watson
Congrats! Soon you won’t even think about a blanket! I swear most people don’t even realize what I’m doing until I’m done
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Way to go!!
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Good job. It gets easier every time. With my first I used a nursing cover at first but later on I didn’t need anything.
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YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD JOB AND CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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NIP is always a huge accomplishment! Way to go!
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Good for you! If your babe’s hungry, they’ve gotta eat right! Way to go, and keep it up!
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Good job, so proud of you mama! Just remember, it’ll get easier and easier
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Yay, that is awesome!!! I’m so happy it worked so easily for you. Thanks for sharing your success stories!!!
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You are a pro! And I had a blast being witness to the big event
(also — I finally updated my blog…it had been over a MONTH! don’t know how you remember to write every day!!!)
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I always use a cover but congrats for going without!! You rock!
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Awesome! I thought I’d feel really awkward, and I did at first, but now I bring my daughter to work with me and nurse while I meet with all different people. If you have the right to eat in public, so does your child. The cool thing is…people will start to ask you questions, and you’ll all of a sudden feel like a pro! The best question yet is “Are they…ambidextrous?” Enjoy your breastfeeding relationship! Embrace the fact that you are doing something that most new mommies (unfortunately) give up on. By showing others how confident you are about it, you may even encourage others to give it a genuine try when they give birth!
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yay!! haha. I wonder how I’ll be with this. I really don’t think I’ll feel comfortable doing it. I don’t go out much anyway so it’s not a big deal, it’s not like we hang out with friends all the time or like we have family nearby. I don’t think I’d mind nursing in front of family, or out with just me and Brian, but I wouldn’t want to in front of friends I think. I think I’d rather just bring a bottle if I can. If we run out, then ok but… yea. I dunno, I guess we’ll see!
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